(I found this somewhere and i thought someone might need a copy)
I have heard it said that men cheat because they can. In case you don't get it, it's because there's always some woman available to take up the offer or to offer themselves before the man even makes a move. Which category do you fall into? Did you see her husband or boyfriend in his depressed state, in the midst of a midlife crisis looking around and restless, and decide you would fit perfectly? Do you have so little respect for yourself, your mother, your sister, your friends and the sisterhood that you had no qualms about having sex with someone you knew was married or engaged or in a long term relationship and had been in it for a while? What would make you do that? Was it a challenge? The thrill of the chase? Did you stop to think how you would feel if this was your husband or boyfriend running around? How your mother would feel?
Maybe he approached you. Or maybe it just happened in the course of work, of being friendly, and the attraction grew, but you still knew he wasn't free; he wasn't available. You have stolen the time, energy, attention and protection of someone’s friend and confidant…
You have such little regard for a fellow human being that you gave no thought to the harm you were doing. You give women a bad name; make us look weak and desperate, and make men feel they can do anything with us and to us. Divide and conquer: women won't stick together so the men win. Win the right to sleep around, to tell you lies and keep you on the side with their wives and girlfriends…
Why would you lower yourself like that? He told you he loved you? He told her he loved her for donkey-odd years. He kissed you? He's been kissing her forever, and up to yesterday. He told you he needed you? Well, he hasn't told her that in a while, but he started out that way, every day for years.
So what happens when he doesn't need you anymore? Do you understand that if it wasn't you, it would be someone else? It isn't love. Even if the relationship he has with his wife or gal friend were the most dysfunctional, it still doesn't give you the right to step into the midst of it.
You should not be a part of their story, and for your own sense you should see that. You should have your own story. You should value yourself enough to want someone who is free because, make no mistake, even if her husband or boyfriend leaves her for you, he's not free. t we main girl is wrapped in his head, his mind, his thoughts and his spirit. She will always be a part of him, even if it's a part he is trying to forget.
So what is it that makes you disloyal to your own kind? Why have you chosen to become the worst sort of woman there is … the other woman? How can you lie on their sheets surrounded by her perfume? How can you sleep with him, knowing he's sleeping with her? Men couldn't cheat if there was no one to cheat with.
Be kind to one another.
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